Happy Father's Day

It only seems fitting that I post something in honor of all the wonderful Dad's out there today, Father's Day! Everyone needs and wants a Dad but sadly, not everyone has one. Dad's are special! They represent strength, safety, practical thinking, assertiveness, drive, & authority.There are so many different types of Dads, each with their own special gift to offer you in life.

Let's take a look...

My personal favorite - The StepDad

StepDads are a very special type of Dad. You see, they don't have to love you, they don't have to take care of you as if you were their own, but they do anyway. They would give their life for yours and it's a part of who they are as a person, not just as a Dad, that makes them so special. There are a lot of Step "fathers" out there but only the best and most special are Step "Dads".

My StepDad - I love him dearly

Thank you for always being there for us girls as we grew up and now. You are an amazing Dad and we are so lucky to have you in our lives. We love you!!

Another shout out for an awesome StepDad - My Husband

He isn't one to show affection so you have to pay attention to the little things & let me tell ya, he loves my son as much as possible for a parent to love their child. He came into our lives when my son was around 10 years old and he's been a consistent, stable, Dad ever sense.

Thanks Honey! We love you so much & are so lucky to have you in our lives!

Just a few more shouts for some awesome StepDads - to my father in law who is another wonderful StepDad, my life long friend Maxx who not too long ago learned the first joys of being an amazing father figure in two children's lives and is another wonderful StepDad. To ALL the AMAZING StepDads out there who have taken the role and reminded all of us how special Dads truly can be.

Of course, there is the oh so important Dad - The Birth Dad

Some children are fortunate to have wonderful birth Dads who are always around from day 1. These Dads are just as special as StepDads. In fact, both the StepDad and Birth Dad are commonly known as simply "Dad" because they are truly one in the same. The birth Dad knows their role as a Father is extremely important. From the moment you are born they are there to help with late night feedings, diaper changes, and as you continue to get older they are there for all your moments; your first boyfriend/girlfriend, your first game, pageant, scraped knees, wrecked cars, broken down cars, you name it, they are there for it. Even though there are many years my Dad and I were estranged; I remember him taking me to the park when I was little. I remember the times we spent with his family. Summer horse camp, bowling camp, going for runs in Puerto Rico (that was not easy or fun). He flew in for my high school graduation and brought my Granny and he was there for my wedding. So even though he missed some extremely important moments in life; he was there for some too. No matter what; we love our Dads. After all, we couldn't be living the life we love if it had not been for them. (wink wink) Now, please don't get the birth Dad confused with the "Dead Beat" Dad. Unfortunately, most "Dead Beats" are birth Dads. It's sad. Dead Beat Dads are the worse.

My Birth Dad

I'm looking for a pic of us from our New Orleans trip but for now, I absolutely love this pic of my Dad & StepMom. I love how happy he is. Love you guys.

Dead Beat Dad - Oh My

I feel so sorry for dead beat Dads. My son's Dad is just this. The truly sad thing is, he is so ashamed of being a dead beat Dad that he can't just muster up the courage to make a simple phone call. If he only knew how special a small act of kindness and love like a phone call can be. He doesn't call on birthdays, was never much of a father even when he was around, didn't even bother to call for the monumental 18th bday or graduation. Dead Beat Dads - they do nothing but hurt themselves and their children. They never take ownership or accountability for their actions or lack of because they never see the error of their ways.

I'm so thankful for all the StepDads & Birth Dads out there!!

Here's to you Dads!!

Thank you for loving us!

Thank you for picking up the slack of the Dead Beat Dads!

Heck, Thank you for doing the Dead Beat Dads job!

Nothing can express how much we love and appreciate you!

Happy Father's Day!!